Bloom Where You Were Planted — Bloomsbury Farm

Nestled in the rolling and hollers hills of middle Tennessee, about 30 minutes outside of Nashville you find Bloomsbury Farm. Lauren Palmer runs this three generation farm alongside her parent’s and daughter. The farm has become an idyllic escape from the near constant construction and growth of near-by Nashville, a city that has allowed Lauren’s vision for this farm, it’s CSA, and farmers market presence to flourish in recent years.

Lauren graduated from college with a social work degree and worked in hospitals, but never felt entirely fulfilled during those years. She decided to intern on a farm that embraced organic farming, and says it was the hardest work she’d ever done, yet was absolutely the most satisfying. As a child her parent’s had moved their family to was is now part of the farmland she oversees. Her dad, who came from the area and was raised on a dairy farm nearby, and her mother encouraged her desire to farm the land and soon became her first, and cheapest worker. Over a decade later Lauren still says that as soon as she hit the dirt she knew she’d found her calling.

Today the farm has grown and is a year round operation. Much of what you see on the farm today began at least two season’s prior as Lauren plans well ahead to ensure her spring Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) kicks off each year without a hitch. The spring is a welcomed season for the farmers here at Bloomsbury Farmer, warmer temperatures and longer days mean the thirty two weeks of the growing season are soon ahead.

Winter, like for most farmers, is a time of rest, but this rest is also required of the land. “Our daily paces slow a bit, allowing us to take stock of the growing seasons that year and calibrate for the seasons ahead. As a team and operation, we’re constantly looking for ways to grow, and in spring we start to see that work take root.”

Spring allows us to reconnect with their community in a bigger way. While they’re at the farmers market year-round, the spring brings the CSA community out and back onto the farm. Lauren says “It’s like welcoming family home after time apart, which feels appropriate during the time of rebirth and growth that springtime brings.”

For Lauren the springtime season is one that is filled with sensory threads: the sweet taste of the first ripe strawberries eaten out in the field, the chirping of baby chicks, and seeing the marks of the season beginning to peek out, such as the daffodils and the small buds that decorate the branches of the pear trees.

The farm is a GAP and organic-certified farm growing over a hundred varieties of vegetables, fruits, herbs, sprouts and wheatgrass. A flock of chickens and gaggle of geese provide fresh eggs, and in recent years they’re started growing hemp organically. Through their on-farm market days, local farmers markets, robust CSA programs (spring, summer, and fall/winter, with about 400-450 shares alone this coming summer), as well as wholesale channels and local restaurants, they put their goods into hundreds of local hands each year.

Over the years Bloomsbury has added summer camps (with a guarantee to send your kids home dirty or your money back) and a nature-based school. This last component -- education -- when combined with farming, feels full-circle for Lauren. The farm, while yes, it is a business, is more importantly a place to nourish, educate, and connect.

Lauren says “I’ll never forget my first farmers market in East Nashville. Incredibly nervous, I wouldn’t have done it if not for the support of a friend who said to show up with the produce and he’d have a table and tent ready. With a handmade poster board sign (which I still have) saying “Grown with Love,” I jumped in and fell in love.” Lauren continues “Each year (and sometimes day) we have bumps in the road, but all of our movements have been forward in the evolution of our farm. When life gives you an excess of tomatoes, you turn it into Bloody Mary mix.”

The most important thing she’s learned in growing the farm is to listen. Listen to your community and customers…to the people who’ve been with you the longest. Listen to what they want and need, then deliver.” From the first farmers market, Lauren fell in love with the connection you get to those you feed. "As farmers, we need to be face-to-face with our customers to listen and learn what they need. Our family motto has always been “bloom where you were planted.” Bloomsbury is more than a place to grow, it’s a place to gather, and I believe that good community, like good food, doesn’t just happen; it is something that’s planted, nurtured, and shared.”

A Storyteller's World — Christie Jones Ray

Somewhere just outside a tiny map-dot Kentucky town, Christie Jones Ray a storyteller, artist, quilter, and children’s book author creates a storybook world that unfolds against the backdrop of the rural South. Born and raised in Orlando, Florida, her soul longed for the serenity of the countryside, inspired by the cherished memories of visiting her grandparents' farm in Kentucky during the 60s and 70s.

Over three decades ago, the Christie became a resident of Pleasant View, Tennessee, marking the beginning of a journey filled with life's twists and turns. An engagement to a dear man led to marriage in the summer of 2007, followed by a move to Historic Downtown Franklin, Tennessee, four years later. Life in a tiny Victorian cottage unfolded like a storybook, and in the year she turned 50, the storyteller embarked on the journey of self-publishing children's books, creating a magical world of her own. Eight blissful years in that cozy cottage were followed by a return to Pleasant View, only to be drawn to a property in her beloved Kentucky in the summer of 2022. The Victorian-style farmhouse built in 1911 seemed to await her, and a cozy log cabin just steps away completed the idyllic setting. A year later, after renovations, they made the move, creating a haven in the peaceful rural setting that now serves as the enchanting backdrop of her storybook world.

Christie’s love for the art of storytelling began years ago, earning her the title of the family's keeper of stories. From a memory cabinet holding family treasures to a blog launched in February 2011, her storytelling skills were finely tuned. The blog became a canvas for documenting family stories, evolving to include tales of her handmade mouse named Eliza, stitched that Easter, and named after her great grandmother. It was these stories that caught the attention of her husband, sparking the idea of transforming them into children's books.

In August of 2011, just three months before turning 50, the storyteller surrendered to the idea of writing a children's book. Her husband took the lead in researching and gathering information, while she delved into learning to draw, use watercolor paints, and develop the story. Thus, the CJR world was born, with Eliza the Mouse at the center of it. Other characters, including a menagerie of dolls, bears and mice, found their way into the hearts of readers. In particular, Really Old Bear became a beloved character, winning over readers with her wisdom and endearing perspective.

Inspiration for this enchanting world comes from the storyteller's vivid imagination, nurtured since childhood. In her photography, she focuses on capturing the beauty and joy in the world, documenting precious moments that will be cherished down the road. The storybook world she shares is a sanctuary, offering a breath of fresh air, beauty, and encouragement in the face of life's challenges.

Having escaped the bustling atmosphere of the big city, the storyteller found solace in the fields of Queen Anne's Lace, farmhouses, and old quilts of Kentucky. The Southern charm and slower pace of small-town life became integral threads woven into her stories. The CJR world reflects not just her storytelling, but also her appreciation for her Southern roots, embracing her accent, love of old overalls, straw hats, and the joy of cooking with too much butter.

The lost arts of quilting, storytelling, sewing, and more hold a special place in the storyteller's heart. Her lifelong love for old quilts led her to learn the art of quilting. The process of making, sewing, knitting and stitching, she discovered, is not just about the end product but about slowing down, releasing endorphins, and sparking creative juices.

The evolution of the storyteller as an artist and illustrator is a journey marked by growth with each project. Each new book becomes a challenge, with the story taking precedence, and the illustrations pushing her boundaries. The commitment to growth is exemplified in projects like "Eliza Visits the Prairie," where the drawing and painting of a calf became a triumph in persistence and artistic commitment.

Remaining true to herself has been key to her artistic evolution. After a brief period of uncertainty, she decided to let her home, her storybook world, and even her clothing reflect who she truly is. This authenticity has become the cornerstone of her style, connecting her love for wildflowers, quilts and mismatched silverware seamlessly.

The community she seeks to build is not just a gathering of readers but a tapestry of makers, quilters, knitters, educators and friends. It's a community that finds solace in shared whimsy, offering comfort, creativity and connection. The storyteller aims to empower this community to embrace the magic of whimsy, creativity and shared stories.

In her flower garden, old-fashioned favorites bloom, mirroring the timeless beauty captured in her photography. Geraniums grace the front porch, and flowerbeds filled with Cleome, hydrangea, impatiens and Granny’s Bonnet create a picturesque setting that reflects the charm of her Southern roots.

The storyteller's go-to Southern dish, meatloaf with mashed potatoes and green beans, holds a special place at family gatherings. Her potato salad is a potluck favorite, embodying the essence of shared meals and family traditions.

Preserving and celebrating small towns is a cause close to the storyteller's heart. Small-town life, with its sense of community, shared joys and sorrows, and the coming together in times of triumph and tragedy, has left an indelible mark on her. The movie Steel Magnolias, with its portrayal of small-town life, holds a special place, closely mirroring her own experiences.

In her opinion, life is best lived in community, a sentiment she ardently believes in. The storyteller's hope is to empower the CJR community to feel comfort, creativity and connection, embracing the shared stories and values that make their bond stronger.

As the journey continues, home remains the storyteller's favorite place in the South, where the pace slows, life is embraced, and the art of storytelling finds its truest expression. Whispers of tales and threads echo through the Southern journey into small-town Kentucky, inviting readers into a world where the magic of whimsy and the comfort of shared stories prevail.

CJR with my favorite of her books…Pick-a Pick-a Pumpkin.

The Beauty Surrounding Me — A Conversation with Anne-Louise Ewen

Los Angeles based artist, Anne-Louise Ewen, grew up in a small town on the Mississippi River in South Louisiana known equally for the beauty of its antebellum architecture as for its proliferation of toxic chemical plants. Anne-Louise’s work includes paintings, prints, drawings, sculpture, ceramics and books. In the current time of deep unrest in the United States, she wrestles to make paintings that she personally and viscerally finds beautiful while not being in denial of the dark realities we are facing as a society.

In the summer between second and third grade, I met one of my first art mentors in a chance encounter and spent that summer learning the fundamentals of drawing with charcoal, a formative experience which established visual art as a core element of my life. As a teen, I attended the Louisiana School for Math, Science and the Arts (a magnet boarding school) and concentrated on a curriculum of fine art, followed up by spending two years abroad studying figure drawing, printmaking and painting in Paris, France. I relocated from New Orleans to Los Angeles in 2005 following the massive upheaval caused by Hurricane Katrina and went on to pursue a college degree in philosophy which led me to later founding The Donaldsonville Art Colony, a collective of painters, writers, musicians, and filmmakers. I drew upon this experience years later when I opened my art gallery in Costa Mesa, California in 2007.

Creating is a powerful antidote to many of the world’s ills. It reminds me of humanity’s better nature. When I’m creating, I feel like I belong more on this planet than at any other time. Being creative is similar to being resourceful; having the ability to make something out of what you have at hand and do it elegantly when possible. Mere consumption and survival are not enough—the urgency in surpassing this is a part of what drives us to create.

I will never actually identify as or with the term of being a “creative”. For me, that expression always implies creative work that is applied to a commercial endeavor for the main purpose of making money. Don’t get me wrong—I very much like making money, but one thing that is important to me is remembering that there is a difference between art and commerce. And when you’re making art, you can start from a place that is not about marketing and selling and making a buck, but rather aim to create beautiful things that transcend oppression, violence, hate, ignorance and existential ennui.

To be frank, and I know this goes against a lot of contemporary art career advice, I don’t think it’s helpful, as an artist, to concern yourself with finding a style. It’s something that develops from experimenting and playing, and following a thread to something that you love. I’m still curious to see how I will paint or draw this or that. I try to make things that are beautiful to me and that I want to have around. I guess I’ve been painting for long enough that there is a lot of partially conscious, subtle figuring going on inside, but there’s always some aspect of leaping into the void. The key for me is to find a balance between bold spontaneity and calm deftness.

I believe that art’s highest good is as an outpost of freedom and a trigger of joy. I’m interested in art that makes me feel in love with the world, and I believe that artists have the ability and responsibility to restore humanity through what we do. Some have said that looking at my work makes them feel more free and alive, and I’d consider that my biggest accomplishment and the highest compliment.

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I grew up in a dynamic where the people I came in contact with were either utterly indifferent to the creative work I was doing, or they were actively antagonistic (with many exceptions, of course!). Over the years, I, therefore, developed in a way that preferred working in isolation—my creative community was made up of the dead artists that I loved, like Matisse and Picasso and of the classical music or jazz on the radio, beaming in from Baton Rouge or New Orleans.

In recent years my creative community has changed some, but it’s a hard habit for me to break. I used to think that I didn’t have anything to say about my work, but now when someone visits my studio, I really enjoy the dialogues that come out of their questions and observations. I love it when someone experiences a connection with something I’ve made, and they say it makes them feel more free, happy and alive. That’s a fantastic part of the equation that was missing from my creative pursuits for a long time.

Surprisingly, my community of artists these days is greatly made up of musician-composers (the most important being my husband, Tyler Sabbag, who is a part of a team of composers best known for their work on the Netflix series, Street Food and Chef’s Table.). I love that they believe, value and understand things that can’t be seen, and this is the kind of person that I like to be around. It’s a never-ending source of fascination for me to discuss the similarities in our work processes. In both of our worlds, we must proceed by a kind of faith and hope to enter a state of grace where the composition evolves into something profoundly wonderful.

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Creativity is renewing. When I’m feeling bummed out and don’t feel like I have it in me to paint, however, I may choose to simply work in a different medium, maybe ceramics one day, or I’ll make candles or play ukulele instead. Sometimes, just taking a break and sitting down to a good meal in a pretty setting will do the trick. I also appreciate the way that travel gives me a chance to be “the me” that I am without the errands and the to-do list crowding in on me, allowing me to find the space I need to dream again.

Pursue your creativity—Don’t overthink it.

Feel your way. Play.

Creative inspiration can come from anywhere though I do find I regularly find creativity in the beauty surrounding me. There is so much power in beauty to nourish and soothe us—a trip to Huntington Gardens in Pasadena, seeing my friend Teressa Foglia’s beautiful hats on Instagram, opera, baseball— I want to amplify that and bring it into people’s lives. I’m interested in seeing what happens next. The best times are when it feels like I just get to show up, set up my materials and ride the ride. I often feel as many artists do—like it’s not me making the work but some force passing through me.

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I love seeing other people’s beautiful, well-organized studios, but the one I have currently is not that. When we first moved in, my studio was dark green. You can see that I painted it white and hung up the string of lights to brighten it up. We’ve regularly moved from rental house to rental house in Los Angeles for the last decade so my studios have had to adapt to what’s available both in terms of space and finances.

We moved to our current house thinking that the garage would make a pretty decent studio for me. It’s not too small, though it’s always a challenge to find more storage. Unfortunately, it turns out it also leaks terribly in the rain, as well as, fills with dust and leaves from the area’s frequent wind storms. The first curtain I hung across the opening blew away in a windstorm, but this one has held for over a year, fingers crossed. On a positive note, my studio has several walls for me to tack up my canvas to paint on plus space for my paints and brushes and other assorted art supplies. I also built cinder block shelves that I added to hold my art books and other treasures. If I waited around for the perfect space I wouldn’t get anything done, so I make it work. (On a side note, we’re house hunting again, and we’ve agreed that we’ll be happy with a tiny living space as long as we have vast spaces for our studios.)

My studio is pretty quiet, apart from my husband composing next door, and it has good energy which is important. Our house is an extension of my studio; I have an area for ceramics and candles, am often making at the kitchen table and use the living room as my rotating art gallery for studio visitors.

As an alternative, I’ve tried renting a studio space away from home, but this didn’t work for me. I need to live with my studio so I can wander out with a cup of coffee in the morning to see what I made the night before. I need to be able to carry wet paintings into the house to live with them a while and see what they feel like.

Realistically, it can be incredibly challenging to carve out the space you need, and you might find you have to be quite resourceful and flexible to make things work. I feel it is important to set up a creative space whatever the size so that it feels like your secret clubhouse hideout from childhood; someplace that you stock with the supplies that will excite you. If you don’t have a room, have a stocked suitcase that you can bring out and conjure that sacred space where you are free to do whatever you want. When I lived in New York City for a year, I had no studio space and so I turned to making small hand-bound art books of tiny paintings. The studio and the work will influence each other. Your available space doesn’t have to hold you back from making something. In our last house, I set up a giant tent in the backyard!

I think it’s an accomplishment to overcome these challenges and not let them hold me back from creating. I have a vision in my head of my ideal studio…big, bright and clean, with plenty of storage for finished work…I’ll get there eventually.

ANNE-LOUISE’S PAINTING MANIFESTO

• Aim to proceed with a devil-may-care work ethic, both cheerful and reckless to investigate, invent and rediscover.

• Let the first-hand personal experience of aesthetic arrest be the true north that guides me, allowing room for an epiphany.

• Aim for nothing less than to create things that transcend oppression, violence, hate, ignorance and existential ennui.

• Focus on the music over the lyrics. In other words, though there are recognizable objects in my paintings, the subject matter (the “lyrics”) is not what primarily motivates me.

• Be virtuous in sharing my work​ with the world

“IMPORTANT” ART

I feel strongly that people should be more discerning about when they use the word “important” to describe art. Often what they mean is that a particular work of art or artist is currently influential, popular or expensive. This does not make it important. What the world needs more of are cultural offerings, which inspire and strengthen humanity's more virtuous qualities like empathy, sensitivity to beauty and love of life.

MORE ON ANNE-LOUISE

Online store: EwenStudio.com

Portfolio: EwenFineArt.com

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“Creativity takes courage.”—Henri Matisse

Bold Exploration - J.K. Winders

Bold Exploration

Following J.K. Winders’ Adventures

“You’re willingly throwing yourself into personal unknown territory for the sake of discovery and illumination.” I love hearing his outlook on adventure and taking in all the things he has learned. Keep reading to see how J.K. Winders finds adventure in the risks.

Why do you adventure? Why do you explore? I like to think that adventures can put you in touch with the broader possibilities of what life can offer. On top of taking the chances to do some incredible things in awe-inspiring places, adventures show you that the set plan is not always the best way and that the worst times today can make for the best stories tomorrow.

I think the biggest misinterpretation I come across from people is that they seem to view exploration as simply wandering aimlessly hoping you stumble on something that made it all worthwhile. In reality, exploration is a journey, it’s a process of discovery, it’s the action of traveling in or through an unfamiliar area in order to learn about it. Out of exploration comes illumination, not just in a new field, but within oneself as well. I discover new capabilities and transcend limits through exploration. I can’t speak for everyone, but that’s why I explore. It makes me a little bolder, a little less fearful, and maybe, hopefully, a little bit better. I like to think that all-around betterment is birthed from exploration. As someone who grew up a little shy and timid, exploration has made me more sure of myself and more courageous. 

Where are you from? I was born near Atlanta, Georgia and lived there for the first eighteen years of my life. And no, unsweetened tea was not a part of my vocabulary. Since then I have lived in Los Angeles, California, Colorado Springs, Colorado, and now I am based out of and roaming full-time in my 25ft Thor Majestic R.V.

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be? The script for my life changed very frequently growing up. There was a time I wanted to be a missionary because I loved the travel and I loved Jesus and it just made sense to little five-year-old me. There were also periods where I wanted to be a train conductor, a filmmaker, an author, a painter, a chef, even a theme park designer. I had so many different interests growing up that gave so many directions to steer my life into.

Why take risks in life? I think we all know deep down that anything worth achieving requires some sort of risk. If you want to experience a beautiful sunrise from a mountain top, you have to be willing to first take a step in the dark. Exploration in and of itself is a risk. You’re willingly throwing yourself into personal unknown territory for the sake of discovery and illumination. Every trail that we’ve traversed was laid down by someone else exploring a part of the empty sandbox. I absolutely understand how crippling the idea of the great unknown can be. But I also know how valuable the growth and discovery that comes from facing it. The first time you jump over a hurdle is always the hardest. You either soar over it or trip and face-plant into the ground. Either way, the fear of the unknown is vanquished because of the action taken against it. 

Favorite place you've visited? Picking a favorite place I’ve visited almost feels like picking a favorite child. But the place that I always search for reasons and opportunities to go back to is Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Growing up in Georgia, we had the Smoky Mountains which I thought were about as majestic as they came. But then when I saw the Grand Teton range, I couldn’t fathom that mountains like that could exist in this world. It’s also a place where I’ve found peace and inspiration to be perfectly abundant and never too difficult to obtain. 

What place do you most desperately want to visit? There are so many places that are still on my list. But right now at this moment I’ll say Southeast Asia. I have yet to venture into Asia and would love to unlock the entire region. I’d love to take the time to do some backpacking through the more off-the-beaten-path parts of Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam. But as I said, there are countless places that my journey has yet to take me to that I would love to experience.

What has changed about you because of your travels? I really believe that it’s impossible to harbor any thoughts or feelings of bigotry or intolerance when you venture outside of your cultural bubble. You learn that there are different ways of doing simple things, different values, from different wants and needs. It is a humbling experience to be the outsider in a foreign country. For instance, I’ll never make fun of or be mad at someone who doesn’t speak my language, because I have been that person abroad who’s the only one in the room that doesn’t speak the language. 

I’ve also discovered looking back on my travels is that none of my worries or fears that I stressed myself out over ever really happened. Other stuff definitely happened, but not the terrible, awful, unspeakable scenarios that I had fabricated in the deep dark spaces of my mind. Traveling does put you a little more receptacle to the things you can’t control. Delayed trains, closed roads, bad weather; all inconveniences that can add spice to the stories you’ll one day tell. And it terms fear overall, I know plenty of people that are still addicted to 24/7 news and it instills that anxiety that the world is full of evil and things to be afraid of. I no longer allow myself to fear something or someplace from afar. 

Who is the most dynamic and thought provoking person you've ever met? I’ve known countless people that have inspired me in very profound ways. But the one that comes to mind currently is one of my best friends from my days of living in Los Angeles. His name was Andre and he was an absolute character that taught me the value of living your life as a work of art. He dressed exclusively in clothes from the 1920s, 30s, and 40s, was incredibly industrious in so many areas from wine and spirits to calligraphy, and antiques to craftsmanship. I really was under the impression that he was all-knowing. If we were ever walking down the street together, the people passing by would be so enamored with his overall appearance. He taught me the lesson of how you present yourself is a story of itself, and if you carefully craft it, it has the potential to bring joy to others. He was the one who encouraged me to live your entire life as a story worth telling.

If you could travel with one person in history or in present who would it be and why? I would love to provide some really profound answer like Jack London or the Fitzergeralds or someone like that, but I keep thinking about my great Uncle Buddy who is maybe the most jovial person I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing in my life. He’s someone that in his age loves experiencing things that he never would’ve thought he’d get the chance to experience. He’s a true adventurer in the sense that there is always something to smile at and laugh about. He’s just a happy, infectious soul that you love being around and I would love to travel the world with him. 

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? I’ll give you a couple of rapid fire ones first; Always be in a mode of learning. Don’t draw too much attention to yourself. Always be aware of your surroundings. Life is too precious to waste it by wearing a fanny pack. The wrong train can sometimes take you to where you really need to be. Pump yourself with plenty of probiotics and vitamin C. 

I also tell people that if they’re going to someplace with a heavy tourist culture to see the tourist traps first and then just get lost. I’ve done the touristy stuff, it’s not that bad, but when you can collect some of those off-the-beaten-path experiences you’ve got gold. For instance, if you’re visiting Venice, swing by the Rialto Bridge and St Mark’s Square, they’re worth seeing. But then pick a direction a start walking. If you’re lucky you’ll end up in the Campo Santa Margarita or some other place where the locals hang out where you indulge in the good pizza and apertivos. The best discoveries are made when you don’t know where exactly you are.

Don’t feel like you have to see and do everything. If you have that mindset, you’ll go through your trip completely exhausting yourself and most likely walk away disappointed  and unsatisfied. Whenever you visit someplace, go with the notion that you will be back one day.

Pack as light as you can, you probably won’t be very far away from someplace where you can pick up a bottle of shampoo if you leave yours behind. Don’t be afraid of ever being wrong or of appearing foolish. Most locals love taking the opportunity to teach outsiders about their culture and their way of doing things, so always try to be humble and teachable. And just be kind, you are the guest after all.

Give us a story any kind of story from one of your trips that will he impactful to the reader. Speaking of Venice… I was passing through a few years ago, and it happened to be my birthday. Up until this point I had been scrambling around parts of Europe trying to see and do as much as I can. I had plans to take the day and get lost in the city. I stopped by a cafe to grab a coffee to take with me on my metropolitan adventure. Like a typical American, I stepped up to the counter and ordered with my money in hand ready to take my morning Joe with me on my merry way. “Okay, go sit I’ll bring it to you.” the barista said to me. I looked down at my money, and back up at her and asked, “Do I go ahead and pay now?” To which she responded, “No you can sit and enjoy it and pay after.” This was new for me, just sitting ands enjoying a cup of coffee. But I did just that, and I still think about that coffee and how slow and beautiful the world seemed in that moment. I actually felt like I was a part of the city for a change which is something I now strive to do with every place I visit.

What is the single greatest lesson you've learned from someone that is different than you? This one’s a little outlandish and cliched I’ll admit, but it’s the one that’s coming to mind.

On one of my first overseas expeditions, I was visiting a friend of a friend in Southern France. He was the kind of guy that I used to be so intimidated by; a tattooed, leather-clad, care-free motorcycle rider on top of being a tall, dark, handsome, suave Frenchman. I was passing through Nice for the night, he picked me up from the train station. Along with my behemoth backpack, I climbed onto the back of motorcycle and we raced off through the streets of the city. At this point I could’ve counted on one hand the number of times I’ve ridden on a motorcycle. I don’t think I blinked the whole time.

After a while he shouted back to me, “When we come into a curve, you got to lean into with me so we don’t wipe out.” That goes against my natural thinking. The is the thing that’s going to hurt so of course I’m leaning away from it. But the way he said it was so profound, mainly because I try to find deeper meanings in most mundane things. But I took that to heart; when you come to a change in the direction of the path, lean into it, commit to it, take advantage of it or it’ll take advantage of you. Embrace the twists and turns because they are a part of the journey.

When did you feel you were most out of your comfort zone? What did you learn from that lesson? When I first arrived in Los Angeles, there were plenty of things that frightened me. I spent the first couple of months couch surfing before I was able to get on my feet. One of my biggest fears was that I would end up having to sleep in my car. There was a short period where I had to do just that. The first night I slept in my car, I found a quiet spot to park in the San Fernando Valley. I buried myself underneath my denim jacket and a dirty towel and settled as best I could into my cramped back seat. The next morning after a surprisingly decent sleep, I snagged a quick shower at the YMCA and I made my way to my favorite diner to indulge in a large, warm Lumberjack special breakfast. If I couldn’t sleep like a king, I sure was going to eat like one. I finally secured a living situation in the trawling city, but this was just a step I had to take to get there.

Since that first night in my car, I have crashed in my backseat countless times and even a few train stations and bus stops. It’s something I don’t even think twice about anymore. And now I live in an R.V. The biggest thing I learned looking back on that is that the desire for comfort can often times be your biggest deceiver and can hinder you from getting to the place in life in which you really need to be. My desire for comfort and stability was one of the biggest constraints for growth that loomed over me. I tell myself now that if I’m scared of doing something, do it scared. 

What would you say to your former self? I really do wish that I could go back and tell myself that there’s nothing wrong with being lost. I haven’t always been adventurous and used to detest the idea of facing extreme situations and uncomfortable circumstances. I liked structure and the times when I could actually plan something. But now I operate in the mindset that no great story has ever happened when someone knew exactly where they were going. But at the same time, I’m glad that I was able to go through a type of metamorphosis and learn these lessons in due time.

What gives you hope? Hope has never been something difficult for to find. The biggest thing that gives me hope, at least for myself, is the notion that there are endless options. The are countless places left to explore, countless things left to learn, people to meet. If you miss an opportunity to capture a story, there are plenty more waiting down the path. I’m in love with the concept of indefiniteness. It’ll be this way until one day when it’s not. I’ll do this until one day when I won’t. Indefiniteness is an integral part of the unknown. It gives me a sense of hope that something could last, but that even if it does end, it can be as beautiful as the beginning and can lead to something better. I love the idea of creating even when I’m an eighty, ninety, or a hundred-years- old, still venturing out, climbing mountains, seeking beauty and wonder. But I also am at peace knowing that some things aren’t supposed to last forever. If something good has come along for you in the past or present, something good can come along for you in the future.

Where to next? Naturally given the current state of the world, plans are changing almost everyday. I had plans for the month of May and June to do some exploring in the California Sierras that had to be scrapped. I even had a weekend retreat for creatives in Yosemite planned that unfortunately had to be postponed. But the changing plans are all a part of the journey.

Currently I have plans set to be in Glacier, Montana for the month of July, and to do some roaming around mountains and coastal regions of Washington and Oregon through the rest of the year. Next year, I’m hoping to make the long trek up through Canada and into Alaska for the summer.

Is flannel always in season? I’m never fully dressed without flannel being a part of my outfit.

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Lakes of teal -Emanuele Mariotti

There’s one word that comes to mind scrolling through Emanuele’s photos, breath taking. Okay, that’s not one word but still. Scrolling through his pics I can’t help but marvel at the insane places he’s been and seeing these places through his lens (literally) inspires me a ton. Plus, I’m always a fan of seeing gay relationships portrayed the way he and his boyfriend are in Emanuele’s pics. Please, if you’ve gotten this far you HAVE to check out his images down below!

Why do you adventure?

I've always had a beautiful relationship with nature since I was a child. I started camping when I was very young as a boy-scout and I never stopped exploring because I really love the forest and the wildlife.

Why do you explore?

I explore because I'm curious. When I was young I always wanted to see the landscape behind the hill, and now I still want to go beyond the surface of things, to see the hidden beauty behind.

Why take risks in life?

I think that everyone needs to take some risks and get out of their comfort zone sometimes to feel alive, without always being worried about the consequences.

Where are you from?

I'm from Rome, Italy, a city that I love and where I was born and raised.

What is your 9-5?

I do many things during my day, I don’t have a routine. When I’m in Rome I try to work-out in the morning with my boyfriend, the rest of the day is always a surprise. I work as a photographer and I develop personal photography projects. During the weekend I always try to explore new places.

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be?

I grew up nurturing many dreams. One of my favorite dreams was to be a wizard like Harry Potter, to have the power to change things and to live in a magic world (which happens also without having superpowers XD)

Favorite place you've visited?

I have many favorite places. One of the latest that I have added to the list of favorites is definitely Lake Braies, which is a lake in the middle of the Dolomites. I've been there because my boyfriend gifted me a weekend there for my birthday and it was amazing. The atmosphere was perfect, and that place looks amazing every time of the year, so you never get bored. Another beautiful place I’ve been recently is Trentino Alto-Adige, in the north of Italy, in particular, Resia and Carezza lakes. I also loved Japan, in which I lived for a month.

Place you most desperately want to visit?

Iceland for sure, but also Canada (I’d love to spend some time in a cabin house in the middle of the forest), Cuba, Thailand. The entire world :P

What is the single greatest moment of human humanity you've experienced while traveling? There are many. The ones I liked most are the stories of the old men and women I met throughout my trips. We should learn from those stories, they could be very precious.

What has changed about you because of your travels?

I have become more curious. I think the more you travel and get to know other cultures the more you want to know and discover in the world.

Who is the most dynamic and thought provoking person you've ever met?

My boyfriend for sure. It's thanks to him that I grew my passion for traveling, discovering new places, and sharing experiences with him. He's a really curious person, even more than me, so it's always cool to arrange new trips together. We travel a lot and we never want to stop.

If you could travel with one person in history or in the present who would it be and why?

my grandmother in history, because I loved the way she lived and the passion she had living her life. My boyfriend in the present because of all of the things I said before.

Must-haves for travel?

For sure a camera. I can't imagine traveling without that. For the other things, I don't think I'm the best person to ask this kind of question because It's always hard for me to pack -every time I'd like to carry half of the house with me. The essentials... camera, a good book and someone you love by your side.

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before?

You're definitely wasting your time. Open your eyes with the beauty of our world.

What is the single greatest lesson you've learned from someone that is different than you?

It is very important to understand that everyone is different, and everyone deserves respect. So, respect, learn and listen to who is in front of you. Don't be selfish and accept the world and its differences.

When did you feel you were most out of your comfort zone. What did you learn from that lesson?

I always feel out of my comfort zone when I do something I don't know. Doing things we don't know can be scary, but it helps us to improve, to prove our limits and be aware of them

What would you say to your former self?

feel free to be who you are because you deserve it. Don't be afraid to do what you like and fight for your dreams.

What gives you hope?

love. Human love is the thing I most need to be hopeful.

Where to next?

I’d like to go to Bali at the beginning of the next year. I’d love to come back again to the mountains of north Italy before it gets too cold.

Is flannel always in season?

I think so. Flannel means forest to me. So it's always the season to go to the forest wearing a flannel shirt.

Travel tips? Live with locals, as a local: taste the local food, explore the historical sites, dive into the daily life and get in touch with people living in the place you are visiting, try to understand their habits

Give us a story from one of your trips that will be impactful to the reader?

I had many little ones but I don't think any of them would be very impactful. I think many interesting stories have to come on my trips.

Based on your travels what is the single most needed improvement for humanity to be stronger?

Be more helpful to each other. Because only together can we be stronger.

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I feel like the more I travel the more I grow as a person... -Marijus Kuokstis

“I feel like the more I travel the more I grow as a person” is my biggest take away after learning a bit more about Marijus and his travels. He’s a down to earth photographer who just so happens to have one of my favorite pictures ever, one that I have titled ‘the 0’ -hope he’s okay with that haha. scroll through some of his pictures and read about some of his travels below!

Why do you adventure? Adventures give me the feeling of living. We all want to do many things, be in many places, meet so many people, going through on an adventure helps me do these things which makes me happy.

Why take risks in life? You can't get anywhere in life without taking risks, you only do good when you are taking risks and pushing your boundaries.

Where are you from? Siauliai, Lithuania.

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be? Full-time filmmaker/photographer.

Favorite place you've visited? The Austrian Alps.

Place you most desperately want to visit? Machu Picchu, Peru.

What is the single greatest moment of human humanity you've experienced while traveling? Visiting Phuket Elephant Sanctuary in Thailand, it was a pleasure to meet such good people who are taking care of elephants who have suffered from working long hours in the logging and tourism industry.

What has changed about you because of your travels? I feel like the more I travel the more I grow as a person, being in a new environment lets me appreciate the little things that make life so exciting and memories so unforgettable.

If you could travel with one person in history or in present who would it be and why? Probably, Christopher McCandless - his story was told in an amazing movie 'into the Wild' he probably was a cool guy.

Must-haves for travel? Comfortable shoes and a camera of course to capture these moments.

Give us some travel tips: First off, rise early. Going out before sunrise will let you see and experience a place in a completely different and unique way. Don't be afraid to travel alone, you'll learn a lot about yourself.

Based on your travels what is the single most needed improvement for humanity to be stronger? Always be kind and helpful.

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? Start with exploring places around you, sometimes you'll be surprised how many beautiful locations are just around the corner.

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? Don't think, just do it, you'll see the world in all different colors.

What is the single greatest lesson you've learned from someone that is different than you?

The more you learn to adapt the more you will feel your similarity with them.

When did you feel you were most out of your comfort zone. What did you learn from that lesson?I remember my first trip to USA, I went there as a student with work and travel program and being from a small country like Lithuania and barely speaking English was a challenge for me, but at the end of the day I spent there 4 months, met amazing people, improved my English and had one of the best summers in my life.

What would you say to your former self? Be patient and never stop wandering. 

What gives you hope? Sunrise and sunset 

Where to next? Austria

Is flannel always in season? Flannel is always a good choice.

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We have destroyed, with the purpose of creating -Mica Veras dos Santos

What stands out to me most about Mica Veras dos Santos is his unique travels. I am used to hearing about the most photog-famous places (which, makes sense, we are photographers after all) but Mica has been to places I’ve mostly never heard of. After seeing his breath taking pictures of these fairytale like castles or mountain ranges that look like something i’ve only ever seen in movies and hearing some crazy stories (spoiler: one includes a 7 hour journey for a charger) I have quite a few new locations on my bucket list I need to add.

Why do you adventure? Adventure is the driving force that pushes me out of my comfort zone and my routine. We, as humans, usually live a life very based on daily or weekly schedules, and sometimes we have not a lot of flexibility or will to break those. I believe that this is where adventures play a massive role in breaking that chain and motivating me to go beyond my area of convenience.

Why do you explore? Because we have (unfortunately) a deadline. Life is short and we should make the most out of it. See as much as we can, share and live the biggest amount of experiences that we can imagine. Exploring puts all this together. It allows me to get in touch with other realities, other personalities, other cultures, other ways of looking into life, world, environment. And at the end of the line the outcome we take out of it it's translated into a rich juice with a lot of good and balanced values inside.

Why take risks in life? What is life without taking some risks right? I mean look at what we have achieved as humanity. If you really think about it, those who brought big positive changes to our world were mainly people that took severe risks in their lives. I believe that this should be reason enough to challenge ourselves to take the risks we believe that we should take.

Where are you from? I was born and raised in the south of Portugal (Algarve), really on the coast side. I used to live 5 min walking from the beach. I might say I kinda miss home 

What is your 9-5? I work as a financial analyst in the heart of Europe (Brussels)

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be? The funny part is that for almost my entire childhood I always wanted to be an army official, mostly because of my father's influence. In the end, things didn't really go in that direction. However, I believe I always wanted to be someone with a story, an experience to tell, and someone that could bring something positive to the world as a whole.

Favorite place you've visited? The group of islands in Komodo National Park, Indonesia

Place you most desperately want to visit? Iceland

What has changed about you because of your travels? My travels helped me to reconnect myself to nature and to live a more simple life. Being born in the south of Portugal helped me to have my first years of life a strong connection with nature. I spent most of my childhood years at the beach. Growing up, I was going further and further from this environment moving to more big and dynamic cities, which kind of broke a little bit this connection, at least in a certain part. Starting to travel more helped me to rebuild this link and to reconnect me to what really matters.

If you could travel with one person in history or present who would it be and why? Chris Burkard without any question. Chris is one of my biggest references in photography and mindset. He left his "comfort" zone, where he was very successful, to pursue something more. He went from shooting surfers on exotic and beautiful beaches to wandering and chasing the most remote surf locations with super harsh conditions. Just because he felt that it was what he was supposed to do. I believe he might have a lot of good stories to tell.

Must haves for travel? If you have a sensitive stomach like me, Iberogast will be your best friend while traveling (no commissions here ahahaa)

Travel tips? Always try to follow the good advice from the locals, especially in places were people are kind and have good hospitality towards you. Usually, such recommendations provided me the best experiences of my life.

Give us a story, any kind of story, from one of your trips that will be impactful to the reader? On my trip to Sri Lanka earlier this year, I forgot the charger of my camera at one of my accommodations. I only noticed it some days later when I was already super far from that city. I met a tuk-tuk driver that drove 7 hours under a thunderstorm and rain just to pick my charger and to give it back to me. He didn't want to accept my money and in the end, invited me to have dinner at his house and to meet his entire family. It was one of the most special moments I have lived in my life.  

Based on your travels what is the single most needed improvement for humanity to be stronger? I strongly believe that humanity should take a step back to where we were before in order to reconnect to nature and the environment. We should review a lot of our actions -what we eat, what we wear, what we consider life goals and what we believe being "happy" means. We have reached a breaking point and we must take severe and radical actions to try to save and rescue the values that can allow us to thrive. We have disconnected ourselves from people, trying to connect ourselves with social media. We have killed and damaged thousands of species, trying to seek proximity to something that it's not meant to be close to us. We have destroyed, with the purpose of creating. The question at the end of the day is really what matters? What is really important in our world? We should be less selfish, think less about us, and more about future generations. For this reason, I believe that we have reached a sad point where we are not capable of loving in the long run. We are able to love our sons and our grandsons, but the harsh truth is that we are not able to love our grand grand children. If we could, we would not be hurting our world as much as we are. Fortunately, humanity has recovered from a lot of crises of values in the past and I strongly believe that we should stick together to overcome this one. 

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? You will never be too old to start, that's point number one. The second important point is that traveling is the best investment you can do in your life. It's something that will bring you countless and priceless experiences that will follow you during your entire life. At the end of the day, who does not want to have some cool stories to tell? eheheh

What is the single greatest lesson you've learned from someone different than you? Relativity. What is important for me, might not be that important for someone else and vice-versa. We should always try to put ourselves in the shoes of the other person. 

What would you say to your former self? Don't worry. Everything is going to work out ;)

What gives you hope? People. At the end of the day, it will be always about people.

Where to next? Vietnam (so excited)

Is flannel always in season? Are there even shirts made of something else? eheheh

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I feel most grateful throughout my life because of traveling -Ivan Diaz

Ivan Diaz has lived a life as colorful as the images he captures. I always love seeing creatives be able to personify themselves through their work and from learning more about Ivan I can’t help but feel that he has turned his intensity for life into such an eye catching unique style of capturing the life he lives.

Why do you adventure? I adventure because I love to explore life’s many unforgettable moments and all the wonderful cultures that surround us. It’s truly amazing being able to see things differently in someone else’s perspective.

Why do you explore? I explore to discover something new, something beyond my own adventure. Life has so many great adventures to discover, so I feel exploring isn’t just about traveling but finding yourself during that moment.

Why take risks in life? If you don’t take risks in life your missing out on what could be an incredible journey. There’s a saying “ You miss half the shots you don’t take in life” so my view is if you don’t take risks you’ll never know the outcome. Good or bad life’s about growth and we definitely learn from every aspect of that.

Where are you from? I’m from Miami, Florida but my ethnicity is Dominican and French.

What is your 9-5? Currently, my daily schedule includes working with clients on banking issues and financial planning, but when I’m not doing that I’m learning and working with brands on photography projects and my own growth as a photographer.

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be? Like any kid growing up I wanted to be a firefighter or a storm chaser because I love the aspect of that feeling of rush, it’s exciting. As a photographer, I feel that same rush when shooting.

Favorite place you've visited? My favorite place I’ve visited so far during my adventures would definitely be Portland, Oregon. It was my first trip and my first time flying on a plane without ( snakes lol ). It was the trip I’d be asking my girlfriend to marry me, so I asked her at silver falls and it was beyond magical during December.

Place you most desperately want to visit? Without a doubt, it’ll have to be Tokyo, Japan!!!! Please, anyone, sponsor my trip hehe.

What is the single greatest moment of human humanity you’ve experienced while traveling? The greatest experience I’ve ever witnessed or encountered of humanity would have to be a moment I saw someone literally take their shirt off to give to someone who needed it more. That person then proceeded to buy that person food this great moment is something that made my traveling experience even greater. This showed me that humanity can truly come together and show so much compassion.

What has changed about you because of your travels? I feel I’ve always been incredibly true to myself as a person and husband, but I feel most grateful throughout my life because of traveling. It’s helped me understand more cultures and the way people in different places communicate better and show gratitude.

Who is the most dynamic and thought provoking person you've ever met? I would say my wife has to be the person that truly provokes my heart and pushes me to continue reaching my limits in life. She’s always telling me to think and process everything I want to accomplish and that alone is a great gift in life. Having someone provoke your ambitions and starve yourself to climb higher.

If you could travel with one person in history or present who would it be and why? I would without a doubt travel with Post Malone because I seriously love his work and just his overall incredible sense of being alive and insane lol. If we would travel together we would smash a lot of beer, food, and great laughs along the way. While capturing great photos and listening to great music.

Must haves for travel? Must have for traveling without even getting crazy is beyond important to carry water, snacks for energy, extra clothes just in case of weather changes during hiking. For camera essentials, it would be great for extra batteries, straps, covers, lenses, the camera of course and any other important equipment needed like drones, and lastly yourself haha.

Travel tips? Traveling can get crazy, but I always make sure to get to the airport about three hours or even four hours earlier. Traveling is hectic and even stressful if your flight gets delayed. Always be ready for a quick change and have food ready to eat while waiting.

Give us a story from one of your trips that will be impactful to the readers? In the smoky mountains in Tennessee, my wife and I took one last hike our last day there. The forecast was to snow but we still wanted to go out and adventure. Halfway through our hike, it started to snow. It was my first time seeing snow falling, which was breathtaking to experience. As we kept hiking up the mountain the harder it became because the snow was getting heavier and more slippery. I almost fell to my death but thankfully I did not and was able to continue the hike. When we finally started to hike down it seemed to last for hours. The second we got to the car we realized we left it on the entire time. It was a rental and I never had a car where there was a button to turn on and off. Good thing there was still gas left because the rangers were closing down the national park. It may not be the craziest story but it was definitely one to remember.

Based on your travels what is the single most needed improvement for humanity to be stronger? To me, during my travels, I’ve seen a lot and I’ve discovered myself more exploring and finding these wonderful moments. The most improvement I believe humanity can have is to continue growing together. I see it all the time people helping others and we need more love spreading around and impacting our hearts and lives.

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? Traveling is an experience that let alone is beyond unforgettable. I remember when I got on a plane for the first time it was traveling to Portland, Oregon. I was scared flying for the first time, but my wife told me everything would be great I think it was that fear of the unknown. Discovering new places, creating unforgettable memories with loved ones. It’s the greatest feeling you’ll never regret especially chasing those early morning sunrises. If you don’t believe and take the unexpected jump you’ll never ever know what’s waiting for you out there.

What is the single greatest lesson you’ve learned from someone that is different than you? I personally feel we learn some valuable lessons every single day in life and even more important lessons from those we’d least expect. Someone I work with that I highly look up too once told me that “ our greatest fear in life is not being able to jump and take that great risk. I know that may seem odd, but to me, this made complete sense. We wait sometimes so long to do what we love most and then without truly realizing it tome passes us by quicker and faster, so take that unpredictable leap and discover your great adventure.

What would you say to your former self? I feel I’ve always been able to adapt to even being under pressure. I think our greatest help comes from believing in yourself and in that single second you’ll feel those discomforts fade away. I’m not saying I’ve never been comfortable because there have been a few moments in my life that I’ve been out of my comfort zone, but I learned to be more confident.

What gives you hope? I’d say make those mistakes and learn what you're worth. Continue taking risks, because you’ll fail sometimes, but you’ll also grow stronger. Push the limits that you don’t think you’ll overcome. It’s alright to not have everything in life, but everything will fall into place at the perfect moment in life.

When did you feel you were most out of your comfort zone. What did you learn from that lesson? Honestly believing gives me hope... Why? Because if we didn’t believe in something we wouldn’t have that fire in our hearts to succeed. I believe in our ability to impact, the impact we can all achieve in life. We can seriously come together if we truly focused on changes. This universe has so many great gifts the beauty of life is powerful and I believe that we can make more impacts just believing and overcoming obstacles together.

Where to next? Heading to Tennessee for thanksgiving just upgraded to the Sony A7iii been working hard on making this possible. I’m beyond excited to chase the journey and create more unforgettable moments with my wife because this life is full of beautiful moments and they’re waiting to be discovered.

Is flannel always in season? Haha honestly I live in Miami, so if anyone’s wearing flannel I’d think they work inside a cooler lol. I personally like flannel, but for somewhere colder

Learn more about Ivan’s travels and a glimpse at their life on their website and Instagram account!

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What is life if not experiences? - Edgar Querol

From Bali to the barren cold of the Colorado Rocky Mountains, Edgar Querol has had his fair share of experiencing all the facets this Earth has to offer to photographers like us. Throughout his life, he always gravitated to art, from graffiti to paintings, then to discovering his ability to express himself through photography which has helped shape who he is today. As soon as I saw these images I was like, woah, I need to book a plane ticket STAT.

Why do you adventure? When you visit a place that you don’t know or have never been, even when you’ve been before, there’s a new world waiting there for you. You just know that you’ll live new experiences, some of them bad experiences (like getting scammed in a bus in Indonesia), but most of them will be great experiences that you know for sure you will bring back home with you and your luggage. What is life if not experiences?

Why do you explore? You can’t just go somewhere and expect something to happen, you must go out, get there inside the mess, and experience everything about it. For me, that’s one of the most important things about photography: you must get inside the mess.

Why take risks in life? Life without risks would be very easy, but also very boring. Only if you risk something can you win something you desire.

Where are you from? Barcelona!

What is your 9-5? At the moment, I’m studying for a national medical examination for graduate school in Spain. I just graduated in June!

When you were growing up what or who did you want to be? I’ve always loved science and was curious about how the human body works. At first, I wanted to be the one who would discover the AIDS vaccine, and as I grew up I knew I wanted to be a doctor. However, when I was 15, after a trip to Scotland where I took as many photos as I could with an old compact camera, my parents gave me a camera as a present and I’ve loved photography since then. 

Favorite place you've visited? I always think there’s no place better than the other one, I tend to think the best is yet to come. For example, I’ve been to Bali 2 times and I lived it very differently both times, so it is more about how you live it than the place itself. Oh, but I fell in love with the West Coast in the USA and Indonesia, to be fair.

Place you most desperately want to visit? I’ve always wanted to visit the arctic and a lot of places in Africa, such as Kenya and Namibia.

 What is the single greatest moment of human humanity you’ve experienced while traveling? There was this woman in Indonesia who ran a small hotel. She didn’t have a penny in her pocket when she was young and tried her hardest to get to university. She worked very hard to be what she wanted to be. Now that she doesn’t have any financial problems, she has built a business in which she not only gives the best local experience to her guests but also hires local young women and men and pays them 3 times the usual salary in the area to help them be able to be what they want to be. One of the workers was very happy to work there and was building a new house for him and his family. Most of the business managers just want to make money, I was amazed by how this woman helped her employees.

What has changed about you because of your travels? I’ve been in almost deserted beaches where you couldn’t count all the plastic objects in the sand. I’ve seen people throwing rubbish from the car in the middle of the road and the monkeys waiting on the edge to get something because they know almost everyone does it. That’s so sad and got me thinking about how beautiful the world is, how we are destroying it, and we’re not realizing the damage we do. We must change our lifestyle if we want it to survive.

Who is the most dynamic and thought provoking person you've ever met? My best friend left Spain when we started uni. She studied in London and she’s become an epidemiologist. She’s been in Kenya literally saving people’s lives with just a drinking tap water, and now she’s working in Mozambique and I can assure you she’s making a change in the world. 

If you could travel with one person in history or present who would it be and why? I would like to travel with some local that’s been trying to change the place for best, sometimes the unknown people are the most important ones.

Must haves for travel? A passport and a camera!

Travel tips? Buy the flights 4-5 months before the trip if you can. That’s my best option when traveling, it allows me to spend the money in the best places rather than on the flight itself because it’s cheaper! I also try to meet the locals, they’re going to help you and maybe you’ll discover something “instagrammers” just don’t know yet.

Give us a story from one of your trips that will be impactful to the readers? When you live in the first world, you don’t really know how poor people are in some places. I’ve seen a man in Morocco biting a rat in the streets. That’s something you would never do or think anyone could ever do. But some people, in some places, have a life you can’t imagine and maybe it is not as far as you would think it is.

Based on your travels what is the single most needed improvement for humanity to be stronger? We are not alone. People who really care are not alone. We can make a change, we just have to take a step forward.

What would you say to someone who has never traveled before? Your life isn’t forever, what are you waiting for?

What is the single greatest lesson you’ve learned from someone that is different than you? That being different than me is not a bad thing. That’s something a lot of people should learn: there’s no need to (and you just can’t) hate people just because they’re different from you.

What would you say to your former self? Do everything you want to do, don’t ever be afraid!

What gives you hope? Humanity is better than we think.

When did you feel you were most out of your comfort zone. What did you learn from that lesson? We were on a bus in Indonesia and we were the only western people for miles around. We knew that the public bus ride was just 2 dollars each, and a random guy asked us for 20 each. We looked at the driver looking for help and he didn’t stop the scam, instead of that, he asked for those 20 dollars with more hostility than the first one. You just have to breathe and try to make yourself understandable. If you can’t win, you’ll laugh about it when you get home!

Where to next? London! In our study break in October

Is flannel always in season? For sure, at any season for moody photography 

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